Dr Oyinwola Oni, a Lagos based DNA expert says that 40% of men do
not know that they are not the biological fathers of their first child.
Dr Oni said this while sharing his experience on how a former
girlfriend wanted to force a set of twins on him. What he told City
People below is quite interesting.
“How I got into doing DNA is an
interesting story which all man should learn from. I lost my wife about
6 years ago. About that time there was a lady I have known for long
in Nigeria but who now lives in the UK. I now said I will be in Germany
on so,so date , can you come and see me? She came in November and we
were together for four days. She left. I left. I got back home. I lost
my wife four weeks after that. Then she became pregnant. She didn’t
tell me. She didn’t tell me. She waited for a year. After a year, she
said she just wanted me to know what she did in Germany, that she now
has twins for me-a boy and a girl. I said now that I can’t say
anything. I am bereaved.
Give me time. How do
you want my in-laws to react. Do you know at the 1st year birthday, I
was in London with a friend. We did one year birthday for the kids.
They were pulling trolleys around with the baby. After 2 years I bought
her a car. After 4 years of loosing my wife, I now said let us now
review the situation and see whether we can marry. As God will have it,
I knew in my mind that I will do DNA before I marry her. Infact, we
were even getting a room ready for her in my house. The carpenter was
working. She was in the UK dictating what she wanted. I traveled to the
UK. I carried her mother. Before I left, I told my brother this is
what is happening. I am going to carry this woman to go and DNA if
these children were mine. I will now ask them to come for the Ileya
festival. We got there she was happy. I took her sample, took the
children’s sample. We submitted the sample at the DNA center. We went
to Italy together. We went for dinner together. Then I came back. When
she was going home one night, I said let me check my mail. I did. The
result of the DNA had come. I was not the father of the twins. Haa! I
failed with 0%. If not for the medical lab scientist, those children
will be in my house now, with me thinking they are my children. I can
tell you this happens to so many men. Do you know that 40 percent of
most of the 1st born don’t belong to their so called biological
fathers, all over the world. Reason? Most of there ladies often have
one or two boyfriends”he said
“I told her, lady from the result, I am
not the father of your kids but I will help you. I explained to her,
we met in November, you gave birth in August, perfect. That is the
time. You can’t force that on any clinical person. Any pregnancy month
minus 3 will give to the AAA. We got 9(Day 9). I asked her a few
questions. So how come? She was to confess to me that because I said
she should take the next available flight from Heathrow to Cologne, the
first flight was 6pm
and where she was, was very far. She had to stay with a male friend
that was living close to Heathrow and that was her day 10. She said one
thing led to another and she had sex with the guy. She came to meet me
on the 11th and she ovulated around that period. She didn’t know.
Atimes women know, atimes they don’t. A woman ovulates only one day in a
month and it last for about 10 hours. And sperm can stay in a woman
for 48 hours. So a lady can have 2 to 3 types of sperm in her system
and when she now ovulates, any sperm that is fertilised can immediately
hit that egg. That was what happened to her. So, the sex she had on
the 9th of that month, the sperm was still there till 11th when she now
ovulated. Before we met on the evening of the 11th, the egg had been
fertilised. There are so many homes where they have this kind of
problems”
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